Post by Vaelushyn on May 11, 2012 17:18:23 GMT -6
Hey guys. I'm not creating this post to flame anyone or anything, I just consider many of you good friends and didn't want to just poof on you guys without at least an explanation as to why I'm leaving HA Abyssea.
I just feel like the past few months all I'm showing up for is to watch HA fall apart, not memberwise but leaderwise. There's always 2 sides to every story, so I'm not sure if anything bad went down between Gan/Ik or if Gan just got burned out and stopped coming to Aby but he did and I know this hit Ik hard. I'm not saying you ARE Gan, but stopping like this I think tends to look like Ayrea all over again, someone Ik trusted heavily with his ls and once said person got what they needed poof. Again not saying this is the exact case, but I can only go by what I see and from my eyes and I'm sure others too that is how this looks.
In return to the above statements, Ik seems to have become angry, depressed and just all out tired of this game, and because of that HE stopped showing for his events. I get being truly hurt by a good friend, I really do but that doesn't excuse you to not tell anyone you need time off or just to cut back on events so your not so overworked instead of getting this attitude of "if the ls wants this bad enough they'll do it themselves" and not posting your absence or at least telling your leaders to let the ls know or change the /lsmes so we know not to show and sit around for nothing. It's disrespectful to us who have been faithful to you and to my ls that I cut my events off at 8pm every Thurs so I'm not late for you.
The next in the domino seems to be Mazura, who is tired of being the pickup man while the people above do nothing when it's their ls. Theres not much more to say here, that's just how it is and I can't say I blame him here. We strive to keep the HA point system intact and run without you both but why? At this point it's no more than a group of friends getting together to help each other finish what the ls failed to, and Maz is tired of being responsible for it.
Which leaves us showing up every Thurs/Sat, sitting for 30+ minutes to see who if anyone is going to host Aby cause Ik won't declare it a dropped HA event but won't show for it either, Gan is busy catching Provenance runs & Maz is hiding to see if he can catch Ik and make him run it and it's just not right.
Every Thurs I show and we don't go I've just screwed over my own ls, and while I hate that by leaving I'm screwing over Abro, Zarris and Papi I can't keep screwing my ls over so I "might" get to help them. As for Saturdays, that's literally the 1 day of the entire week I never plan events on, a day that would literally be just for me to relax and is very much needed with all that goes on both on XI and irl but each week I rush to get all my rl/XI things done early so I can give Sat to you. Not because I need anything, or feel I have to but because I want to. Same as Thursdays I show because I know HA has been low on people in at least this department, and since you all have done so much for me I wanted to show my support in return.
If it were just an issue of attendance I'd keep right on coming, but I just can't keep doing this to myself & my ls when there's obviously no desire for these events to happen, and while I wish you all the luck in the world I have to withdraw from HA Abysea. I'll still show for Einherjar to show my support and bring Morrd as your feather mule however. Peace all, hope everything gets fixed between all mentioned above, because itd be a shame to see a good ls fall over this.
~Vael~
I just feel like the past few months all I'm showing up for is to watch HA fall apart, not memberwise but leaderwise. There's always 2 sides to every story, so I'm not sure if anything bad went down between Gan/Ik or if Gan just got burned out and stopped coming to Aby but he did and I know this hit Ik hard. I'm not saying you ARE Gan, but stopping like this I think tends to look like Ayrea all over again, someone Ik trusted heavily with his ls and once said person got what they needed poof. Again not saying this is the exact case, but I can only go by what I see and from my eyes and I'm sure others too that is how this looks.
In return to the above statements, Ik seems to have become angry, depressed and just all out tired of this game, and because of that HE stopped showing for his events. I get being truly hurt by a good friend, I really do but that doesn't excuse you to not tell anyone you need time off or just to cut back on events so your not so overworked instead of getting this attitude of "if the ls wants this bad enough they'll do it themselves" and not posting your absence or at least telling your leaders to let the ls know or change the /lsmes so we know not to show and sit around for nothing. It's disrespectful to us who have been faithful to you and to my ls that I cut my events off at 8pm every Thurs so I'm not late for you.
The next in the domino seems to be Mazura, who is tired of being the pickup man while the people above do nothing when it's their ls. Theres not much more to say here, that's just how it is and I can't say I blame him here. We strive to keep the HA point system intact and run without you both but why? At this point it's no more than a group of friends getting together to help each other finish what the ls failed to, and Maz is tired of being responsible for it.
Which leaves us showing up every Thurs/Sat, sitting for 30+ minutes to see who if anyone is going to host Aby cause Ik won't declare it a dropped HA event but won't show for it either, Gan is busy catching Provenance runs & Maz is hiding to see if he can catch Ik and make him run it and it's just not right.
Every Thurs I show and we don't go I've just screwed over my own ls, and while I hate that by leaving I'm screwing over Abro, Zarris and Papi I can't keep screwing my ls over so I "might" get to help them. As for Saturdays, that's literally the 1 day of the entire week I never plan events on, a day that would literally be just for me to relax and is very much needed with all that goes on both on XI and irl but each week I rush to get all my rl/XI things done early so I can give Sat to you. Not because I need anything, or feel I have to but because I want to. Same as Thursdays I show because I know HA has been low on people in at least this department, and since you all have done so much for me I wanted to show my support in return.
If it were just an issue of attendance I'd keep right on coming, but I just can't keep doing this to myself & my ls when there's obviously no desire for these events to happen, and while I wish you all the luck in the world I have to withdraw from HA Abysea. I'll still show for Einherjar to show my support and bring Morrd as your feather mule however. Peace all, hope everything gets fixed between all mentioned above, because itd be a shame to see a good ls fall over this.
~Vael~
